As the New Year near everyone starts making a list of
resolutions as they wish to follow it in the coming Year. People makes goals s
for their business, career, health, fitness and many more. But in this they
forget to make resolution for their relationships. According to experts it is
said that “For a lifelong and healthy relationship, acceptance is the key. Love
is to understanding and soothes your partner.”
Therefore let’s talk about some of your New Year resolutions
that every couple should take to live a healthy and a happy relationship forever.
1.
Stop fretting:
Ina relationship we mostly take our partner for granted.
So if there is something which is bothering
you, stop having small fights, instead of that have a discussion on that topic and
clear it. Small backbiting comments usually deteriorate a relationship.
2.
More and better sex:
Actually physical intimacy is very much essential for
a relationship to work. The busy lifestyle causes decrease
in closeness and this merely becomes an act. Take efforts to make your sexuallife interesting. Avoid making sex as a task, start enjoying a time
together.
3. Pay attention:
When you are with your partner, make
a point to be with them. Avoid redirecting your interest on other
things such as emails, texts or IM’s. It is found that
many of us keep multitasking even when our partner is talking. So make a note
to change this habit and listen to your partner by giving full attention.
4.
Show gratitude:
This year make a point to show gratitude to
your partner for all his or her efforts. Here are some of the simple ways to
start. Do such things that will increase your relationship extremely. Your partner
will feel valued and would make more initiatives to make the relationship last.
5.
Eat healthy:
It is very common to see couples putting their
weight on after getting married. Therefore make a resolution to have a healthy diet
this year.
6.
Stop criticising:
Along with this it is also observed that when we spend
lot of time with someone, we start criticising them by ignoring the good
things. Therefore in this year make sure
that you will not criticize your partner for small things.
7. Be a better listener:
Do not just listen and nod in a discussion, instead
of that take out some time to sit down and to listen your partner’s problems and
worries and try to solve it. This is a great step in strengthening a
relationship.
8.
Have fun together:
Couples find very little or no time to indulge in
leisurely activities. Therefore take efforts to spend some playtime in your
everyday life.
9. Have a date night:
We all know that busy couples are unable to find time
to go out as well as to relive the time they had spent together previously. Therefore take effort to have
“date nights” in order show your partner that how much you care about your
partner and how the romance is still deep in your relation.
10. Learn to say- No:
This situation occurs many time when you are disagree
with your partners point of view, but them also you agree as you don’t want to hart
your spouse. But sometimes it can cause fights
too therefore to avoid it learn to say “NO” politely where you are not agree.
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